How do I handle holidays after a loss?

What this usually means

Give yourself permission to change traditions. Plan ahead rather than avoiding it. Name the person at gatherings. It is okay for holidays to look different now.

What to do next

• Start the PathAfter checklist for situation-aware first steps.
• Find California county help for coroner contacts, vital records, cost tools, and paperwork.
• Open the First 72 Hours Call Log before making calls.
• Open the Documents to Find Checklist when you are ready for paperwork.

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